Intimacy After Infidelity | Rebuild Connection, Emotional Healing, Forgiveness for Adultery, Avoid Divorce
The Go-to Podcast for Christian Women Who Want to Heal Their Heart to Shed Their Shame! *RANKED TOP 2.5% GLOBALLY* Do you wish someone would stop and see you, instead of looking through you or past you? Are you Googling ways to communicate and connect with your husband, but you’re still not feeling heard? Do you lay awake at night wondering if your marriage can survive infidelity or what’s the first step to file for divorce? Your vows are broken, and you’re so full of shame that you’re sure there’s no way God or your husband could possibly forgive you. I am so grateful you’re here! This podcast will help you find hope, get a grasp on your emotions at a deeper level, and learn how to get raw and honest with God like your life depends on it- because it does. You’ll also get coaching for the steps along the journey of restoration, communication, and trust. Hey, I’m Kristina Joy. Forgiven daughter of Jesus, Mom, and Coach. For years, I tried to break free from my infidelity in all the wrong ways. I tried by sheer willpower, I tried reading my Bible more, and I even considered joining a 12-step program. None of it worked. I finally realized that if I was going to find true freedom in my life, I needed to let Jesus heal some deep wounds in my heart. Through prayer, a whole lot of research, and developing new healthy habits, I was finally able to find healing to shed my shame once and for all. I learned I could choose to leave the affair behind. I could choose to pursue my own emotional healing and growth, no matter if my marriage survived or not. I could create new healthy habits that would move me forward in confidence, with strength and dignity. And I am SO ready to share what I’ve learned with you! If you are ready to finally find your true self in Christ, Experience ultimate freedom from your bondage, Feel authentic connection without the secrets, And move forward with strength and dignity, Then find your safe space and pop in those earbuds. I’m about to show you that intimacy after infidelity is possible, and life can be way better than it ever was before. Get ready- let’s rebuild your intimacy better than it’s ever been!
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Tuesday Aug 12, 2025
Tuesday Aug 12, 2025
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You cut contact. You deleted the number. You swore you’d never reach out again. So why does it still hurt? Why do you still miss him?
I get it. No contact isn’t a quick fix. It’s like withdrawal.
And healing is about way more than blocking someone.
In this episode, I’m sharing:
Why cutting contact can still leave you craving him
What helped me actually move forward
The difference between willpower and inner transformation
How to return to yourself again and again, with love
This isn’t about shame or weakness. It’s about choosing you and God, one small moment at a time.
If that’s where you are, my 4-week course Coming Home to Freedom is open now. It’s where we retrain your body to feel safe again, with Scripture, nervous system healing, and a community that gets it.
Or book a 1:1 coaching call if you want to talk it through personally.
You’re not broken. And you’re never alone.
Let’s Connect:
💌 Book a 1:1 Coaching Call with Kristina
📖 Experience the Coming Home to Freedom course + 4 coaching calls and messaging
💙 7-part devotional experience
📸 Send me a message on Instagram with the word CALL for more support: @kristinajoycoaching
Tuesday Aug 05, 2025
Tuesday Aug 05, 2025
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Everyone talks about earning back trust from your spouse after an affair. But here’s the truth no one tells you: before anyone else can trust you again… you have to learn how to trust yourself.
In this episode, I’m sharing why rebuilding self-trust is the root of true healing—and how to take small, safe steps toward integrity and alignment with who God made you to be.
You’ll learn:✅ Why obsessing over your spouse’s trust keeps you stuck✅ How “big trust” starts with small kept promises✅ What integrity really means when no one’s watching✅ Simple ways to rebuild self-trust *and* your nervous system✅ How to stop fearing your own choices and feel safe in your own body again
If you’ve ever thought, “I can’t even trust myself not to mess up again,” this episode will help you breathe, slow down, and rebuild from the inside out.
Let’s Connect:
💌 Book a 1:1 Coaching Call with Kristina
📖 Experience the Coming Home to Freedom course + 4 coaching calls and messaging
💙 7-part devotional experience
📸 Send me a message on Instagram with the word CALL for more support: @kristinajoycoaching
Tuesday Jul 29, 2025
Tuesday Jul 29, 2025
📞 Book a 1:1 call! Schedule here
What if your continued struggle isn’t a sign that you’ve failed… but a sign that you’re still becoming?
In this honest and hope-filled episode, I share what it means to walk through the messy middle without shame. You’ll learn how to reconnect with your future self, care for your body and spirit, and return to your values without trying to “fix” yourself. This is for the woman who feels tangled, tired, or tempted to give up. You are not broken. You are becoming. And this episode will help you remember that truth.
Let’s Connect:
💌 Book a 1:1 Coaching Call with Kristina
📖 Experience the Coming Home to Freedom course + 4 coaching calls and messaging
💙 7-part devotional experience
📸 Send me a message on Instagram with the word CALL for more support: @kristinajoycoaching
Tuesday Jul 22, 2025
Tuesday Jul 22, 2025
📞 Book a 1:1 call! Schedule here
If you’ve just ended an affair—or maybe you’ve confessed and you’re still spinning in shame—you might be wondering: Where do I even start?
I know what it feels like to be frozen in confusion. To believe you have to fix everything. To feel like you’re the problem. But healing isn’t about fixing your marriage first or spilling every tiny detail. Your first step is coming home to yourself and God.
In this episode, I’ll share what those early days looked like for me—what actually helped me move forward, the biggest misconceptions women believe at the start of this journey, and the one gentle but powerful next step I recommend for you right now.
What you’ll learn in this episode:✔ Why your first step is not fixing your marriage or earning everyone’s trust✔ How shame shows up and keeps you stuck in secrecy✔ What healing really involves—your mind, heart, soul, and body✔ The one small shift that started my journey home
Let’s Connect:
💌 Book a 1:1 Coaching Call with Kristina
📖 Experience the Coming Home to Freedom course + 4 coaching calls and messaging
💙 7-part devotional experience
📸 Send me a message on Instagram with the word CALL for more support: @kristinajoycoaching
Tuesday Jul 15, 2025
Tuesday Jul 15, 2025
📞 Book a 1:1 call! Schedule here
What if repentance wasn’t about shame—but about coming home?
In this tender and truth-filled episode, I share what it means to return to God not with guilt, but with grace. Through my own story of wrestling with desire, honesty, and identity, you'll be invited to reframe repentance as a loving homecoming, not a spiritual punishment. Whether you're still in the affair or navigating the ache afterward, this episode is a safe, compassionate space to be honest and begin healing.
You are not disqualified. You are still welcome. You are still becoming.
Let’s Connect:
💌 Book a 1:1 Coaching Call with Kristina
📖 Experience the Coming Home to Freedom course + 4 coaching calls and messaging
💙 7-part devotional experience
📸 Send me a message on Instagram with the word CALL for more support: @kristinajoycoaching
Tuesday Jul 08, 2025
Tuesday Jul 08, 2025
📞 Book a 1:1 call! Schedule here
You thought things would get better after the confession. But now? You just feel stuck.
In this episode, I speak directly to the woman still in the middle- maybe still in the affair, maybe just out of it, still wrestling with shame, spiraling thoughts, or disconnection from God and herself. You’ll hear my story of getting unstuck, the moment I finally found support, and how transformation often begins in the quiet, hidden places.
We’ll explore the difference between punishment and process, what it means to go inward like a butterfly in a cocoon, and why your journey is not just valid- it’s sacred.
Let’s Connect:
💌 Book a 1:1 Coaching Call with Kristina
📖 Experience the Coming Home to Freedom course + 4 coaching calls and messaging
💙 7-part devotional experience
📸 Send me a message on Instagram with the word CALL for more support: @kristinajoycoaching
Tuesday Jul 01, 2025
Tuesday Jul 01, 2025
📞 Book a 1:1 call! Schedule here
After an affair, it’s easy to withdraw, thinking you're protecting yourself or others. But withdraw turned isolation keeps you stuck, while solitude creates space for healing.
In this episode, we explore the subtle but powerful difference between the two. You’ll learn how to recognize when you're numbing or hiding, how to build healthy rhythms of solitude with God, and why safe community is essential to your healing after infidelity. This is for the woman who feels lost, disconnected, and unsure how to re-engage without shame.
Let’s Connect:
💌 Book a 1:1 Coaching Call with Kristina
📖 Experience the Coming Home to Freedom course + 4 coaching calls and messaging
💙 7-part devotional experience
📸 Send me a message on Instagram with the word CALL for more support: @kristinajoycoaching
Tuesday Jun 24, 2025
Tuesday Jun 24, 2025
Ready for your first step? Grab the Coming Home to Jesus Workshop here!
After betrayal, the shame can feel unbearable. You wonder, Who even am I now? In this episode, we explore the shock of your choices, the myth of the "good girl," and the invitation to rebuild your identity through the eyes of grace. You're not beyond redemption—and you're not alone.
If you’re asking, “How could I have done this?” then join me! In this episode, we talk about the identity crisis that follows infidelity, how shame distorts your view of yourself, and why your story isn’t over. You'll hear encouragement rooted in Scripture, reflections on purity culture, and a fresh reminder of who you are in Christ, even after an affair. Whether you’re still in it or healing from it, this is a powerful step toward wholeness.
Next steps:
✨ Your first step toward healing starts here → Coming Home to Jesus guided workshop👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com
✨ Ready for deeper transformation? → Join Coming Home to Freedom, my 4-week course that helps you rebuild intimacy with yourself and God while releasing shame.👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com
💬 Join our safe and growing community → www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity
📩 Want to talk with me 1:1? → https://calendar.app.google/v7dKcC7aZVfH8YHL8
💙 Find me on Instagram! @kristinajoycoaching
Tuesday Jun 17, 2025
Tuesday Jun 17, 2025
Ready for your first step? Grab the Coming Home to Jesus Workshop here!
You finally told the truth. You thought it would bring peace. But now you feel more confused, ashamed, or overwhelmed than ever.
This episode is for the woman who confessed her affair and is now wondering what comes next.
I’ll walk you through why confession is only the beginning, what real healing looks like, and how to rebuild trust in yourself and intimacy with God.
Next steps:
✨ Your first step toward healing starts here → Coming Home to Jesus guided workshop👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com
✨ Ready for deeper transformation? → Join Coming Home to Freedom, my 4-week course that helps you rebuild intimacy with yourself and God while releasing shame.👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com
💬 Join our safe and growing community → www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity
📩 Want to talk with me 1:1? → https://calendar.app.google/v7dKcC7aZVfH8YHL8
💙 Find me on Instagram! @kristinajoycoaching
Tuesday Jun 10, 2025
Tuesday Jun 10, 2025
Ready for your first step? Grab the Coming Home to Jesus Workshop here!
If you’ve been trying to fix your marriage, your emotions, or your image… and you're exhausted, this episode is for you. Healing doesn’t start when everyone else changes- it starts when you slow down enough to listen to you. In today’s honest conversation, I’ll share how I stopped overfunctioning, started trusting the Holy Spirit within me, and began healing from the inside out.
The first step isn’t doing more—it’s getting radically honest.
Next steps:
✨ Your first step toward healing starts here → Coming Home to Jesus guided workshop👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com
✨ Ready for deeper transformation? → Join Coming Home to Freedom, my 4-week course that helps you rebuild intimacy with yourself and God while releasing shame.👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com
💬 Join our safe and growing community → www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity
📩 Want to talk with me 1:1? → https://calendar.app.google/v7dKcC7aZVfH8YHL8
💙 Find me on Instagram! @kristinajoycoaching