Intimacy After Infidelity | Rebuild Connection, Emotional Healing, Forgiveness for Adultery, Avoid Divorce
The Go-to Podcast for Christian Women Who Want to Heal Their Heart to Shed Their Shame! *RANKED TOP 2.5% GLOBALLY* Do you wish someone would stop and see you, instead of looking through you or past you? Are you Googling ways to communicate and connect with your husband, but you’re still not feeling heard? Do you lay awake at night wondering if your marriage can survive infidelity or what’s the first step to file for divorce? Your vows are broken, and you’re so full of shame that you’re sure there’s no way God or your husband could possibly forgive you. I am so grateful you’re here! This podcast will help you find hope, get a grasp on your emotions at a deeper level, and learn how to get raw and honest with God like your life depends on it- because it does. You’ll also get coaching for the steps along the journey of restoration, communication, and trust. Hey, I’m Kristina Joy. Forgiven daughter of Jesus, Mom, and Coach. For years, I tried to break free from my infidelity in all the wrong ways. I tried by sheer willpower, I tried reading my Bible more, and I even considered joining a 12-step program. None of it worked. I finally realized that if I was going to find true freedom in my life, I needed to let Jesus heal some deep wounds in my heart. Through prayer, a whole lot of research, and developing new healthy habits, I was finally able to find healing to shed my shame once and for all. I learned I could choose to leave the affair behind. I could choose to pursue my own emotional healing and growth, no matter if my marriage survived or not. I could create new healthy habits that would move me forward in confidence, with strength and dignity. And I am SO ready to share what I’ve learned with you! If you are ready to finally find your true self in Christ, Experience ultimate freedom from your bondage, Feel authentic connection without the secrets, And move forward with strength and dignity, Then find your safe space and pop in those earbuds. I’m about to show you that intimacy after infidelity is possible, and life can be way better than it ever was before. Get ready- let’s rebuild your intimacy better than it’s ever been!
Episodes

Saturday Apr 13, 2024
Saturday Apr 13, 2024
Last episode, we talked about getting out of your head and taking back control of your mind and thoughts. Today, I think it's equally as important to talk about our bodies.
God made our bodies and called them very good. But do you ever struggle with wanting to go back to your former way of living? The one that didn't honor your body how God intended?
Join me as I walk through a few Scripture passages and remind us of what God says. Stop focusing on the past. We have a new nature, created to be holy and righteous!
How else do YOU care for your physical body?
And always remember: You are not alone!
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Saturday Apr 06, 2024
Saturday Apr 06, 2024
Do you ever catch yourself thinking or doing something you wish you could stop? Do you ever feel stuck in a rut like you can't get out of your head?
I'm coming at you today with tons of practical tips on changing that! Let's work to rewire your brain so that you can create the habits and life you actually want.
I'd love to hear what your next step is!
And always remember: You are not alone!
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Monday Mar 18, 2024
Monday Mar 18, 2024
Imagine if Jesus showed up at your house today and sat down with you. What if He asked you, "Do you want to be healed? Do you want to get well?" How would you answer?
Unfortunately, the only "right" answer is the honest one. But there is HOPE for healing and forgiveness in Jesus's name!
And always remember: You are not alone!
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Tuesday Feb 27, 2024
Tuesday Feb 27, 2024
I had a mentor ask me a really great question: What do you think you need to do next? And my own answer really surprised me. I needed a plan in several areas of my life, because without a plan, I was less likely to get anything done.
I realized this applied to exercise. To business. To time with God. And even to my marriage!
So are you feeling stuck or overwhelmed? What do you need to do next? Listen as I share my 6 tips for both your personal and marriage growth!
Always remember: You are not alone!
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Friday Feb 16, 2024
Friday Feb 16, 2024
For the first time ever, I'm giving you a sneak peek into a weekly coffee chat I hosted. You women bring so much experience and wisdom to the table, and I'm so grateful to be on this journey with you! We talked about:
1. When an affair affects your family relationships
2. What has helped you grow spiritually on your healing journey?
3. Having an experience of Christ's love- do we have to walk through a traumatic experience?
4. Christ meets us in our anxiety!
Always remember: You are not alone!
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Sunday Feb 11, 2024
Sunday Feb 11, 2024
It's that time of year! Roses, hearts, love, teddy bears and chocolate, and- emotional overload. During the affair, holidays were always a disconnecting experience. I disconnected from God, disconnected from my husband, and disconnected from myself. Today, I choose different!
Get ready for some mindset work AND practical application! It's time we commit to living in truth, communicating our desires, and working on ourselves. Remember to come tell me what you're changing this week!
And always remember: You are not alone!
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Wednesday Jan 31, 2024
Wednesday Jan 31, 2024
Maybe you've heard the verse "There is no more condemnation" (Romans 8:1) or "Throw off your former way of life" (Ephesians 4:22), but for some reason, the past keeps popping up in your mind and blocking your vision. Even after I was on my healing journey, I still wrestled with everything pointing back to "the affair"!
I want to share a sneak peak into a counseling session I had during that season and share a few reflection questions I learned then. Join me on the daily journey of shedding your shame to live in true freedom!
And always remember: You are not alone!
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Saturday Jan 27, 2024
Saturday Jan 27, 2024
You were created for connection. But somewhere along the line, your Enemy tried to steal it. He tried to disconnect you from others, from God, and even from yourself. But not today! Let's chat about what happens when the Enemy lies to you and why community is really that important.
You are not alone!
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Wednesday Jan 17, 2024
Wednesday Jan 17, 2024
Jumping in today to a difficult question and answer- Is it okay if I still miss my affair partner? And the (short) answer is- yes! But then I would challenge you to dig in a bit deeper.
-How are you giving yourself space to ride out the emotions like you ride out a snow storm?
-What are you believing about the affair? About the partner? About yourself? About your marriage?
-Have you ever written out your whys for why you chose to end the affair? And why you chose to commit to your marriage?
You are not alone!
JOIN US for our coffee chat and Fervent book study by Priscilla Shirer! Tuesdays at 8:30 pm EST. Ask me for the link!
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Saturday Jan 06, 2024
Saturday Jan 06, 2024
Do you know you know you should be praying for yourself and your marriage, but you just can't drag your feet to your prayer closet anymore? Have you started to think that maybe your sin really is blocking your prayers from heaven?
You are not alone!
JOIN ME for our Fervent book study by Priscilla Shirer! Starting THIS Tuesday, January 9 at 8:30 pm EST. Just ask me for the link...
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