Intimacy After Infidelity | Rebuild Connection, Emotional Healing, Forgiveness for Adultery, Avoid Divorce
The Go-to Podcast for Christian Women Who Want to Heal Their Heart to Shed Their Shame! *TOP 2.5% GLOBALLY* * #9 RELATIONSHIPS PODCAST* Do you wish someone would stop and see you, instead of looking through you or past you? Are you Googling ways to communicate and connect with your husband, but you’re still not feeling heard? Do you lay awake at night wondering if your marriage can survive infidelity or what’s the first step to file for divorce? Your vows are broken, and you’re so full of shame that you’re sure there’s no way God or your husband could possibly forgive you. I am so grateful you’re here! This podcast will help you find hope, get a grasp on your emotions at a deeper level, and learn how to get raw and honest with God like your life depends on it- because it does. You’ll also get coaching for the steps along the journey of restoration, communication, and trust. Hey, I’m Kristina Joy. Forgiven daughter of Jesus, wife, and working mom. For years, I tried to break free from my infidelity in all the wrong ways. I tried by sheer willpower, I tried reading my Bible more, and I even considered joining a 12-step program. None of it worked. I finally realized that if I was going to find true freedom in my life, I needed to let Jesus heal some deep wounds in my heart. Through prayer, a whole lot of research, and developing new healthy habits, I was finally able to find healing to shed my shame once and for all. I learned I could choose to leave the affair behind. I could choose to pursue my own emotional healing and growth, no matter if my marriage survived or not. I could create new healthy habits that would move me forward in confidence, with strength and dignity. And I am SO ready to share what I’ve learned with you! If you are ready to finally find your true self in Christ, Experience ultimate freedom from your bondage, Feel authentic connection without the secrets, And move forward with strength and dignity, Then find your safe space and pop in those earbuds. I’m about to show you that intimacy after infidelity is possible, and your marriage can be even better than it was before. Get ready- let’s rebuild your life and marriage better than it’s ever been!
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Tuesday Aug 01, 2023
Tuesday Aug 01, 2023
Girlfriend!
Grab your favorite (non-alcoholic) drink- I can't wait for you to meet my friend Ashley! She is a Sober Coach for people trying to break unhealthy drinking patterns, and she has a similar passion like me for helping women find true freedom in their life!
What drew me to Ashley when we first met, was that we used similar language: addiction, shame, labels, recovery, freedom. But while I talk about the affair addiction, she talks about it with substances. What a beautiful community that understands the need to put God first and find healing!
In today's conversation, we talk about: True freedom from the issue and not "willing" it away. The role your brain plays when your body is doing "new" things. Your identity and how the words you use to label yourself can empower you or keep you stuck.
Pull a chair up to the table- let's dig in!
I pray you experience the love of Christ today!xoxo,KristinaJoy
Connect with Ashley:
Instagram: @ashley.sobercoachBio: www.holyhopecoaching.com
Next steps:NEW community! www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelityEmail me: kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com
Thursday Jul 27, 2023
Thursday Jul 27, 2023
Hey Friend,
Have you ever wondered what exactly a healthy marriage looks like, anyway? You know the movies are fake, but what's left for real then? Is there any way to really build a marriage strong enough to survive anything?
I have some revelation for you today! Just like a tree has roots, a trunk, and leaves with fruit, your marriage can be rooted, stable, and life-giving! I break it all down inside today's episode.
I pray you experience the love of Christ today!xoxo,Kristina
**Ready to chat? Let's talk about how to shed your shame and take the first steps toward true freedom! I'm ready to get in the trenches with you, girl!**
Next steps:Join the community! www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelityEmail me: kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com
Tuesday Jul 25, 2023
Tuesday Jul 25, 2023
Hey Friend,
I am so excited for you to meet Darnell Wilson today! He currently serves as Director at Northeast Ohio Impact, unleashing the Gospel to local college students. We first met when he preached a sermon at my church on forgiveness and how Christians need to forgive and be forgiven.
Today we continued the conversation in Zechariah, where we learn Jesus silences Satan's accusations on our behalf. And what's more, God changes our clothes- and our life! And we are never the same!
I pray you experience the love of Christ today!
xoxo,
Kristina
Continue the conversation with "Darnell J. Wilson" on any social media channel.
Next steps:
WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTIONConnect with me: kristina@kristinajoycoaching.comSay hey on Instagram: @kristinajoycoaching
Thursday Jul 20, 2023
Thursday Jul 20, 2023
Hey Friend,
So maybe I convinced you in the last episode to seriously consider spending 10-15 hours a week with your spouse. How is that going for you so far?
Would you love a little more support? I'm here today sharing 10 date ideas you may have never heard of or tried before! These are guaranteed to change things up, and they include both in-and-out of the house options as well as paid and free. Choose your own adventure! Then come tell me about it!
I pray you experience the love of Christ today!
xoxo,
Kristina
Next steps:WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTIONConnect with me: kristina@kristinajoycoaching.comSay hey on Instagram: @kristinajoycoaching
Tuesday Jul 18, 2023
Tuesday Jul 18, 2023
Friend,
Do you ever hear recommendations and think, there's NO way I could do that! I used to think that when someone told me- healthy marriage have couples that spend 10-15 hours a week together. This is intentional, face-to-face time where you can communicate and grow together. Cue all the excuses: kids, time, money, sleep!
But then I got serious about my marriage. I wanted to invest in it and show my husband he was a priority to me. After all, when we were dating, we spent tons of time together! Why not now?
So in today's episode, I break down the hours with some suggestions of how it could practically work for you. Need more suggestions or want to talk about how it would look in your situation? Book a FREE call and let's work through a plan together!
I pray you experience the love of Christ today!
xoxo,
Kristina
Next steps:WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTIONConnect with me: kristina@kristinajoycoaching.comSay hey on Instagram: @kristinajoycoaching
Thursday Jul 13, 2023
Thursday Jul 13, 2023
Mama,
True confession: there are still parts of the Bible that I do NOT want to read because I'm afraid of the shame and conviction creeping back up! Proverbs 7 was one of those that came up in my reading plan- all about the "immoral woman."
BUT GOD met me even there! When I was willing to be open and take my emotions to Him, He showed me a beautiful scene of redemption, rescuing, and safety. He is so good, I just had to share it and encourage you as well.
I pray you experience the love of Christ today!
xoxo,
Kristina
Next steps:WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTIONConnect with me: kristina@kristinajoycoaching.comSay hey on Instagram: @kristinajoycoaching
Tuesday Jul 11, 2023
Tuesday Jul 11, 2023
Friend,
We could all use a little more JOY in our life, wouldn't you agree? There are enough things fighting for our attention between social media, the news, and just hard things that enter our lives. You know a fruit of the Spirit is Joy, but have you ever wondered what it is and how do you get it? And maybe you've been in a season of hurt and pain so long, you're not even sure you could ever experience Joy again.
There is HOPE, dear one! If there was Joy for King David (who had an affair and murdered her husband), then I guarantee there is Joy for you today. Let's dive in and learn what it is, how you can get it, and why you even want it. Then come and let me know what you're going to do with it!
I pray you experience the love of Christ!
xoxo,
Kristina
Next steps:
WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTIONConnect with me: kristina@kristinajoycoaching.comSay hey on Instagram: @kristinajoycoaching
Thursday Jul 06, 2023
Thursday Jul 06, 2023
Hey there Sister!
After wrapping up Episode 8, lamenting your circumstances, God revealed even more depth to me as I saw connections between Psalm 42, Psalm 43, and Psalm 77! I was so encouraged that I couldn't wait to share it with you too.
After you've taken a shot at sitting in your own lament, you might be asking, NOW WHAT?! God still feels absent. Your relationship with heaven doesn't feel any more refreshing. Yes, dear, even this season has a purpose. And that's exactly what I want to tell you in today's episode!
I pray you experience the love of Christ!
xoxo,
Kristina
Next steps:
WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTIONConnect with me: kristina@kristinajoycoaching.comSay hey on Instagram: @kristinajoycoaching
Tuesday Jul 04, 2023
Tuesday Jul 04, 2023
Happy 4th of July Mama!
Do you have party plans today? Are you gathering with friends and family? Or are you trying to avoid the crowds and have a quiet, peaceful day? Maybe your house feels like fireworks could explode any minute, so you're just trying to avoid any sparks.
Can we talk for a minute about what you can control? Spoiler alert: it's you. I think it's worth pausing for a few minutes to check in on your needs, your attitudes, and your effort before you make your plans today. I believe it's possible to genuinely enjoy your day without faking it. And I'd love to hear how it goes!
I pray you experience the love of Christ!
xoxo,
Kristina
Next steps:
WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTIONConnect with me: kristina@kristinajoycoaching.comSay hey on Instagram: @kristinajoycoaching
Thursday Jun 29, 2023
Thursday Jun 29, 2023
Hey sister,
Are you in a season of really hard emotions? Do you find yourself using words like frustrated, discouraged, hopeless, and lonely? Be encouraged- you are not alone. There are so many other women feeling the same things, and people also felt that way in Scripture!
Today, I walk you through a lament Psalm. We talk about what a lament is, how it's written, the example in Psalm 42, and how you can write your own. This can be a powerful moment with you and God. I double dare you- grab your journal and pen and see what happens when you get real with your emotions!
I pray you experience the love of Christ!
xoxo,
Kristina
Next steps:
WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTIONConnect with me: kristina@kristinajoycoaching.comSay hey on Instagram: @kristinajoycoaching
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